Very annoyed with my mom

[Hollyj]

Yeah I can definitely find a roommate sharing a 2 bedroom apartment but from the search I pulled up, most of them want students or young professionals that’s already advancing in an educational field

 

That does not make sense. I can't believe you cannot find an apartment with roommates.

 

Why are you in such debt? What are your education goals? Where are you working now? How much education do you have?

[Greg40s]

It feels like you have recognised what others have pointed out but I will say this - in a way, your original post didn’t surprise me as much as it did others because I feel that, when we’re living at home no matter what age, we can often slot back into a child role. It regresses us. I’m sure it’s not true for everyone but I’ve seen it many times and I felt the frustration of that in your post. My experience comes from leaving home at around 19 but due to certain circumstances ended up living at home from my mid-twenties to about your age and, honestly, I became a child again and I didn’t fully see it until I was back out living my own life.

 

Parents are hard at the best of times because what they say affects us as if we were still a child. So I concur with other people - do anything you can to find a way of moving out. Be your own person. Then love and support your mother but from the position of an adult. It can be hard depending on your situation (where I am, large numbers of people are still living at home well into their 30s due to rent prices) but it’s really important to get out of the house.