Honeycomb8 159 Posted May 8, 2019 Share Posted May 8, 2019 It's blatantly clear she's not single. People don't live with exes for ages nor do they stay and renovate a house together. She only lives and hour and half away...Uh that's not far. You need to back off from this because she's cheating on her partner with you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
katrina1980 673 Posted May 8, 2019 Share Posted May 8, 2019 MichaelS, may I ask how you met her? I presume on line, was it on FB or an online dating site? Who contacted who first? Since you're long distance (sort of) I've got a theory about that, which I will share after you answer the questions.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MichaelS1977 1 Posted May 9, 2019 Author Share Posted May 9, 2019 MichaelS, may I ask how you met her? I presume on line, was it on FB or an online dating site? Who contacted who first? Since you're long distance (sort of) I've got a theory about that, which I will share after you answer the questions.. I met her on FB. We are both members of few groups. I contacted her first. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
catfeeder 1,873 Posted May 9, 2019 Share Posted May 9, 2019 How long has her divorce been finalized? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DancingFool 1,418 Posted May 9, 2019 Share Posted May 9, 2019 How long has her divorce been finalized? She isn't married. Living with her bf where they share house and mortgage and supposedly are renovating the house to sell later. It's been a year and still status quo re living arrangements. Not to mention, living only 1.5 hours from the OP, she's only managed to see him a few times in this whole time. I don't think this woman is single and I don't think her bf knows he is an "ex".... 1.5 hours is not a big distance to make time to see the OP, develop a relationship, stay over the weekends eventually and so on...normal progression of a relationship if she were actually single and available. Explaining to your bf why you are traveling to a different town on a regular basis, going away for weekends is much more complicated...... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 2,275 Posted May 9, 2019 Share Posted May 9, 2019 Renovating a house together is what couples living together do. You are a third wheel/affair. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 521 Posted May 9, 2019 Share Posted May 9, 2019 I should clarify a couple of things. She has made it abundantly clear to me that he is an ex. No reconciliation. And, maybe I do have her up on a pedestal. But she was the one who confessed a crush, and love first. Every hear of a rebound? I have a feeling this was an infatuation to escape her situation for a little while. Not intentional but it happens to a lot to people who are still recently involved with their ex. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Oceane1990 1 Posted May 10, 2019 Share Posted May 10, 2019 If she loves you & you love her, invite her to move to your house! See what she says. She's selling the house with her ex but there is no reason for living together Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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