Quraishy Posted May 7, 2019 Share Posted May 7, 2019 Hello, There was this girl I mean online on Facebook, and soon we became good friends, I felt very appreciated and cared by her, and comfortable when talking to her. All this time she would multiple times directly and indirectly tend to show her feelings towards me, however I would not engage her so as to not hurt her as I didn't really plan on marrying her then. But she continued extremely caring for me, and loving me without any physical stuff, I would in fact always not show any emotions, and usually being very hard on me. Fast forward, one guy proposed to her, she would discuss with me about her for 2 weeks or so etc.. I didn't feel anything, they then agreed for marriage, and as the time came for her marriage, I felt love for her like I have never ever felt for anyone else, I realize and regret missing something very precious, and I am absolutely shattered. We come from Asian Muslim society, and her family with her intention decided to go for the other man for her marriage. She tried for 2 years and gave up on me so said yes, but was in constant contact with me, night before her marriage I told her that I will marry her if she stops the marriage with the other man, she told me I have asked her something very difficult, but will sure talk to her mom, and in the morning she talked to her mom who declined her request. Later she married the other man who is crazy about her and wants her bad, first night she felt terrible and wanted to get back to me, but within few days she says the other man had made such and such promises and hence she cannot leave him etc.. She said she will keep me as a friend and that I should not come in between her and her husband. Can anyone tell me what happened with me, her ...... Does she really love the other man now, or is it more of a revenge, or coz he shows so much affection to her that she cannot leave him, or is it that living with someone causes them to develop love once in marriage? can anyone tell me a way i can get her back , as of now I am not able to write fully well as I have been feeling very low and crying, but if anyone has any further questions please dont hesitate to ask me. Thanks alot, Link to comment
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