thelonerange Posted May 4, 2019 Share Posted May 4, 2019 A little background: My Gf met up her stepsister this past January in NYC and got to hang out for a day with her and her BF. A few days ago, I was just going through facebook bored at work. Checked out the stepsister's FB, she seemed nice and sweet. Saw her BF's FB and clicked on it. When looking through his posts, I couldn't help but notice nearly everything he posts had a "GF likes this post" next to it. For some reason a discussion we had before where she defended the argument sleeping with step siblings was not incest popped up in my head. Her step siblings are pretty attractive, don't know whether she thinks her stepbros are attractive but they are good looking. So when she went to do something and left her laptop open, I checked messenger on it and didn't see any bad messages. I did notice that messages were deleted in the past but whatever not going down that rabbit hole. So pressed for time, the next thing I did was just grab her activity feed of likes from the time my GF and the BF became friends and sent it to myself. I figured maybe she just likes everyone's posts? No big deal then. So going through the log I found out she likes his stuff way more than anyone else. Like I observed earlier, it was nearly every post he made. A total of 17 since late January. When compared to her actual stepsister, she only liked 2 of hers. The kinda funny thing is that 1 of the 2 was just a selfie of her BF. So I went to my GF and asked why is she serial liking all his stuff? She says it just pops up on her feed and she likes and thinks nothing of it. Ok fair enough. However she didn't know I had the activity feed. You could clearly see several instances where it said she liked 3-4 of his things at the same time. Meaning she would deliberately go to his page and like multiple posts at the same time. I don't think someone's posts show up on the activity feed 3-4 in a row at a time? Most of the pictures being selfies. So then she started sending me screenshots of her activity log as proof but was being sneaky and cutting off the screenshots at certain parts showing serial likes. So I would ask her to show me the next few lines after what she cut off and she started actually editing her activity log then sending me the screenshot. I called her out on it basically saying "really you're going to start lying to me now about that"? I guess she didn't realize I already had her log. And she double downed and insisted there was no deleting "its called a snapshot". I don't think anythings going on. The BF is pretty active on FB with posts and likes on other's pages. I think maybe the BF either thinks its creepy or 'aww she has a crush on me'. He has liked or commented on exactly 0 of my GF's various posts. Am I in the wrong for pointing out this is weird and to moderate yourself? I think its ok to think someones attractive and to throw them likes. However the serial liking to me is weird. She has turned it around on me as being super insecure and "crazy". At this point won't even address the lying. So she stormed out of the house and is at her friend's place in another town. Pretty much saying its over because I'm too crazy, I'm insecure, and it means "nothing". She says she doesn't think when she does it and is just being supportive. "It just comes up in her feed", but isn't it being deceitful when the activity log proves she actually goes to his page to like multiple posts at the same time? So am I in need of mental help because this bothers me or is this legitimate to be weirded out by? Link to comment
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