idontknow32 Posted May 4, 2019 Share Posted May 4, 2019 Okay so it all started about 2 weeks ago when this guy decided he was going to make an argument about every little thing possible. They have been like this everyday and he always finds something to get pissed about. A couple nights ago, she was hanging out with me and some of our guy friends. Btw. She has made it very clear to him that they are just guy friends so he said he was okay with it and trusts her. (Unfortunately that’s really not the case). Anyways, so we were hanging out at one of the hang out spots in our area and he pulls up. My friend gets out to talk to him but stops at a friends vehicle first to say hi because she walked right past it. But as soon as she got to his vehicle afterwards, she started getting screamed at for not coming to his vehicle first. Then she gets back in the vehicle with us and tells us everything. Then her boyfriend pulls around and backs into another parking spot so he can watch our every move. (this was so uncomfortable). Then we decided to drive around for a bit because we were bored. He starts following us and tries to chase us down around our area. We were going almost 100 down rural roads trying to lose him. We were all shaking and scared at what he was going to do if he caught us. After we lost him, he was texting my friend saying all this hurtful stuff that was starting to make her blame herself for everything. But just wait. That’s not even all of it. So we eventually go hide out in our friends work shop to avoid going back to the hang out spot. Then we get dropped off at home but we ran to the backyard because we didn’t think we could open the front door fast enough. My friend parked away from the house to watch and make sure we were safe. We got in my vehicle to drive to my house where we were about to leave afterwards and saw him drive past my house like 6 times. He was literally stalking us! He wouldn’t leave us alone. So we got our friend to drive us back to her house and we finally got inside safe. Then he calls her and says things along the lines of “what are you doing? Why aren’t you answering my texts?! You can’t hang with these people” Overall, he is very controlling and possessive. Whenever she’s with me, she gets in trouble. He yells at her and tells her things that brings her self confidence down to the ground. As her best friend, is it my job to interfere with what she does now? Or do I let her figure things out by herself..? I’m very worried and in need of assistance. Any thoughts?? Link to comment
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