WaywardKiwi Posted April 29, 2019 Share Posted April 29, 2019 Hey everyone, It's been too long. I am a little emotionally exhausted, so I am going to spare the details of every 'red-flag' and issue from my past. Basically, I am having doubts about my currently relationship of just shy of 6 months. While these doubts stem in part from my own relationship issues (which I am sincerely and dilligently working on), there is a real possibility that there are serious compatibility issues as well. I have deep and genuine feelings for her, and I can imagine and want a life with her, but not if that future is a projection of the present relationship. From my perspective, there has been a downward slide for around 6 weeks. Essentially, as I sit here tonight I am unsure whether to continue the relationship and work on it, or end the relationship. Here's the catch; I have plans to meet her family tomorrow. She is extremely close to her family, and I know this is important to her. I don't want to cause her any unnecessary pain, and I feel that if I meet her parents and subsequently break off the relationship this is unfair. However, I think deep down I don't want to give up yet. I am also aware that there is no small amount of anxiety on my part (I have had anxiety issues in the past; largely under control now), which makes me concerned that I may not be making the healthiest or wisest decision in any case. I don't know, like I said this has exhausted me over the last 4 days (there was an incident which basically acted as the proverbial straw on the relationships back). Am I a complete POS if I just go and meet the family, even if in a week or two I end up deciding to end it... Any input welcome. Thank you in advance, T Link to comment
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