Bluejay85 Posted April 28, 2019 Share Posted April 28, 2019 While I’m not sure that I would necessarily call this a “break up”, I just need to get this off my chest. A few months back I met a guy online. He was the typical smooth talker, said everything right. Days into talking I gave him my number and we started texting. Age wasn’t brought up until a few weeks in. He ended up being 40 and me 19. I know, shame on me for this big age gap but I loved talking to him so I said screw it. We ended up talking and texting every single day, sometimes 3-6 hours on the phone at night. He’d go to work in the morning call and text on on his breaks and then we’d go and call again later that night. About a month into everything, he starts to admit having feelings for me. Saying he’s fallen for me. I shortly after began to realize that I was starting to develop feelings as well. We went on talking for a while longer, feelings became deeper and everything was perfect. We would talk of meeting up soon and spending time together, he lived a few states away. This quickly ended one night when I was suddenly blocked on everything 4 hours after our last conversation. I tried to reach out another way, only received “something happened, I can’t talk to you anymore”. I spent the entire night wondering what happened, what I had done. The night morning I got one message stating that he’s married. Turns out he’s 45, been married for 19 years and has a teenage daughter. Sitting here the past few days I’ve felt pathetic wanting him to just message or call me and explain something, just anything. So stupid for falling for this, for still missing him. I can’t understand how an individual can spend months of his life claiming to love another person, lose hours of sleep each night talking to them, tell them everything about his life, all while having a wife and child in the background. How can you spend months of your life messing with somebody’s feelings only to block them with no explanation, no guilt or shame. I feel sick over this, so horribly sorry for what his wife is now going through. But how could he have managed to hide this so easily? Talking for hours at home in bed, throughout his house, at night and through the day. After speaking with a mutual friend, it seems that I’m not the first person he’s done this with. Link to comment
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