Aliceuwu Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 So my ex boyfriend and I were together for a little over a year, we are each others first loves. We have shared many things with each other we have never shared with others, have done things for the first time for both of us together, just have very loving and special memories. We were long distance, I'm in America he's in England but at first it wasn't such a big deal until I was supposed to visit in February and things fell apart last minute. Distance got too hard and he started public school for the first time in a VERY long time. He started having friends like a normal teenager does (I went through this normally as Ive gone to public school my entire life) but he hasn't and quickly became infatuated with the idea of having friends who were there that he went to school with. He stopped spending more and more time with me and soon things fell apart. We still love each other very deeply, he has told me that he will forever love me and that maybe later we can get back together once things were better in terms of individual problems. I'm moving there in about two years and visiting this summer (we plan to meet up). I love him very much, we ended on good terms and did no contact for a while, he reached out a few times and is being a bit more than just friendly with me. He's been looking at my google photos (Thinking I can't see that he is) and doesn't seem to have any problems just talking to me and having fun. We have been texting a little more recently (all good experiences) and even called today and played some games. He's sent me a few selfies, knowing it makes me smile when I see them and I've sent them back. I'm trying not to think negatively, he seems excited to meet me this summer for the first time. It can be hard to not think of the negatives like what if he gets with another girl? What if we never end up together? What if I mess up? I've been watching a lot of Clay Andrews videos as he seems to be one of the better coaches (doesnt play mind games and focuses solely on the connection between the two and rebuilding it) they are very helpful. I'm trying to rebuild the connection in hopes we will get back together some day. What do you guys think? Do I have a good chance? I love him more than anything in the world and I'm not giving up on us. Im going to therapy and trying to work on myself as well. Any other advice about what I can do or how I can stay positive? Maybe even some inspiring stories would be nice! PS: I would like to add that a lot of weird phenomenons and crazy that doesn't usually happen that's related to my relationship happened while I was dating him and continue to happen afterwards, I feel like I'm living in a ing movie sometime Link to comment
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