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I smothered her and she says it's too much. Any chance of things working out?


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Wait for her to text you. DO NOT text her first again. Do not pursue. Trust me, you made it very clear you are more than interested. If she's interested, she will reach out. Forget any plans you have of contacting her, 3 days, 2 weeks, 2 years. Don't bother. You sound controlling.

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Your fear and anxiety are through the roof and the only way you can think of to relieve it is to message her. However, your over messaging CAUSED the problem that is causing your anxiety.

 

Find another way to soothe yourself. Messaging her again will make things worse. Way worse.

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Being in contact with her friend talking about her it's not "no contact". Step away and don't message her or her friends. Move on. This is too much. Use this as a lesson for the next girl and also access why you're so needy and insecure so that you can avoid it next time.

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