mommyof2 Posted April 16, 2019 Share Posted April 16, 2019 Okay, so I am writing this today to see what my feedback will be. I'm not expecting to get back with this guy but it will be interesting to see outside perspectives on the matter. So here goes: Me and a guy we will name Kevin were talking for months. We never met in the months we were talking but things were going well except for the fact that Kevin was under the assumption that I wasn't in to him. Anyway, randomly two weeks ago I decided to call him on a Friday to hang out and we did and it seemed like i was with him 24/7 from that moment on. He confessed he really liked me and we even had sex already...which I regret now but I can't change the past. Anyway, everyone was telling me i was making him happy and he was even telling me that i was. That essentially I was the reason he was happy anymore. He told me he was scared of losing me and he didn't want that to happen. However, a couple nights ago he basically told me he needed a break from me because he had some personal going on and he needed to rethink if he really wanted a relationship. And this really hurt me badly because it's like why say and do everything you did if you were just gonna pull this. So I got drunk and I messaged his best friend for advice and I guess I threatened his ex, whom of which was partially the reason he basically was ditching me. Fast forward to today. I've tried everything in my power to get him to talk to me and nothing has helped and to make matters worse, I'm possibly pregnant (we were completely safe about it) (I told him I'd need to go in for retesting in a few days because it was early and we'd go from there). And when I told him he really flipped his top. He told me I was lying, crazy, harassing him and his friends and his family, and that he was going to contact a lawyer for a restraining order. Also, that I ruined every and any chance of being friends. I guess what I'm asking is, despite me blowing him up trying to get him to talk to me, I just don't understand how his feelings just disappeared. Because I'm angry too, what he said to me really hurt me off but at the end of the day I know I still like him....which sucks. Do you think he's gonna regret doing and saying all that and come back? And it's not that I want him to. I just wanna be possibly prepared for what I will say. And I know nobody can predict the future lol. Link to comment
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