Jelyse11 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 I have been seeing this guy for 6 months now and it has been abusive from the start. He has always been suspicious of me cheating and lieing to him without any proof. At the start of the relationship he blocked me on everything and ended the relationship and in this time I slept with someone else. Well when we got back together he went through my phone and saw messages between me and the guy I slept with and totally lost it. He took my phone and purse and tried to throw me out of the hotel we were at with no clothes on. He strangled me and I was covered in bruises from him dragging me around. We ended up making up after that incident but he never got over me sleeping with someone else. He accuses me constantly of being with other guys behind his back. Would make show him my phone and all social media. It finally got to the point that he would go crazy over even past things before we were together that I deleted all my social media to avoid arguing and so he wouldn't think I was talking to other guys. This didn't help though. He says I have sex with my work colleagues, that I have guys over when he isn't there at my place. I'm too scared to go out because he will think I slept with someone else. He says I'm a liar and that's all I'll ever be. He has been cheated on in the past so I know he is paranoid because of that and because I was quiet a confident person and he knows I went a bit wild before we met and I was single for a year. But i don't know why he thinks I would still be like that if I love him? Anyways it has become physical a number of times as well. I have never once touched him or been violent towards him. He is 6ft 9 and I am only 5'1 but this hasn't stopped him back handing me in the face multiple times and my eye swelled shut. Strangled me multiple times. Both times to the point of becoming unconscious and the last time was only last week. In the incident last week he also grabbed my hair and started smashing my head into the car window. It all started because he said I lied about when I last smoked a cigarette and he was angry and I wouldn't get out of the car and begged him to talk. Well that's when he turned and screaming at me to get the f** out and started hurting me. I finally got out after I came around from being strangled. I ended up in an ambulance after he took off leaving me in the car park. The police were called but I refused to give a name or make a statement. He is currently out of state until the end of this week and its sick but I miss him. He hasn't spoken to me at all and not even to check on me. Please someone talk sense into me and tell me not to contact this man again. I feel like an idiot. Everyday he would call me a sl**, putrid, fat, stupid, he wouldn't kiss me because he said he knows I have been with other guys, asked me daily who I had sex with or did oral with, called me bi***, cu** and just about every other name you can think of. Why do I think so little of myself to put up with this? Link to comment
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