Ethanlien Posted April 7, 2019 Share Posted April 7, 2019 It is difficult to describe succinctly the "problem" (hopefully there isn't one), but here goes: 1. I met her through mutual friends and she came recommended - 5 months ago 2. We started dating a month later, but she needs a visa to stay in the country 3. So even after 3-4 months of dating, I agreed to get her an engagement (pathway to marriage) visa, not cheap! -- currently going through application with a lawyer 4. I shower her with holidays and expensive luxury gifts. I pay for most of our living costs, as she has no job here (due to tourism visa). 5. I am off to see her parents, and she has already met mine. 6. We have regular sex (started with once a day, now once/twice a week) 7. I work out 3-4 times a week, keep fit, have a very good job. Never speak to other girls, keep my life simple: job - relationship 8. She has moved in with me. She cooks now and again, does a lot of cleaning. So she does contribute that way 9. She buys me presents and her family is rich, but I always pay for things. Normally, each day is good. I would prefer more talk time, but she has her own world and I have mine. However, in the past week she has grown distant and critical of me. Yesterday (Saturday), I got up early to go into work and print out her visa application support documents. When I got home, she was very cold. During and after dinner she was critical of me from everything to chewing noise to my pay cheque and where I work (which are pretty good!) It just doesn't feel right. Whilst this has only been less than a week, but you know something is wrong... Of course I am trying my best and giving this time, but I really want people's feedback here. I am freaking out. At 36, I am a total failure in relationships. I always give it 100%, but it seems the female side always looses interest after several months.... Maybe I am too boring (see 7), meh. Link to comment
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