LisaGeorgiou Posted April 6, 2019 Share Posted April 6, 2019 Ok, I’ll try to give you the short version. Have been married 12 years, during which time my husband has had quite a History of dishonesty. So about a month ago he was working away and I woke up at midnight and for some reason, don’t ask me why I felt I needed to have a loon at his emails on the computer. So I found some emails from a salesperson at the electrical wholesaler (female) where my husband gets his supplies for his business from. A lot of them are quite flirty (mostly on her part) but there were a couple that really raised red flags for me. First one was on that went like this: Her: ok I’m running out of ideas, what do you want tomorrow? Husband: All of you, or a day off Her: hahaha I’ll see what I can do with all of me Husband: awesome! Second email was her saying “I have a question. How does a convo about wanting to borrow a mates place for the afternoon to boink (have sex) with someone who ain’t the wifey go? Hahaha So eventually i confronted my husband and he told me that she had sent him a pic of herself in a bikini and he had sent her one back of a cartoon penis. And when I asked him about the second email about borrowing someone’s house he said he had no idea why he sent that and that they had never discussed having sex and he’d never replied to that email. I can’t imagine that this is the whole story. He also said that she had been complaining about not getting sex from her husband and he’d told her he was in the same boat. I truly feel there is much more to this story, I can’t believe that everything that happened between them is what I discovered myself in the emails. When I looked through he phone before I confronted him, all the messages from her had been deleted. He’s admitted he messed up big time but I really don’t think he’s telling me the truth when he says this is all there is to the story. Like how does one photo lead to the second email 6-8 weeks later? I’m also devastated that he asked this woman for a pic of “all of her”. What would everyone else think/do? Link to comment
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.