Sirk Posted April 5, 2019 Share Posted April 5, 2019 I find out my girlfriend had been messaging her no good ex for whatever reason and I confront her about it. Obviously I'm in a lost now because I see the messages and I knew they weren't in a healthy or good relationship, but in the text they say to each other "babe" and "love you". Emotions and feelings aren't the same anymore for her, or at least isn't as strong but I still care for her. She then said she blocks him on everything, but months later I see her texting her ex again, and her alcoholism is pushing me away from wanting to be with her. Currently: she's really giving it her all to change and be a better person after going to counseling, and planning on going to AA and doesn't want to lose me. I'm still uncertain on my feelings on everything... Would you try to go on and see if things would get any better knowingly she's lied and been disloyal multiple times, but had always been supportive and caring for you? Though she says she's trying to change all that and be a better person? Or Just cut ties, end things and not potentially make it worse in the long run. Because this is where I'm at now. ______ I don't even know if I'm in the right thread to post this. I just searched in Google "relationship advise" saw this, made an account and here I am... Link to comment
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