TLH460 Posted April 4, 2019 Share Posted April 4, 2019 I'm in a bit of a rut at the moment. Last year I finished a long term relationship because we never spent any time together. He was more interested in getting stoned and playibg his xbox than spending time with me. I met a guy online. He wasn't working when I met him but I has my own olace and a job and although he asked for a bit of cash now and then i was happy. Things got serious and I moved to be nearer him. I've been living at his mum's for the oast 5 months and during this time I've seen major cahnges in him and I-m not happy any more. He managed to get a job after a year of being unemployed. His mum bailed him out with his bills and cooked for him. He qyit the job after 3 weeks and his mum said he-s walked out on a lot of jobs. He drinks almost every day and has asked me, his mum and sister for money for beer. He does nothing around the house and constantly expects me to cook. He has 2 kids from a previous relationship. The ex has stopped him seeing his boys because we went out and got quite drunk and he missed meeting up with her to pick the boys up. His mum has said several rimes that I shouldn't have taken him out because he's done this type of thing before. Since quitting his job he stays up in the bedroom playing his playstation all day. There us little to no interaction unless we're arguing about his drinking or general laziness. He has recently started telling me to f@#k off, sometimes calling me a c@#t. I have no where to go and I don't know whats caused the change. Whwn I talk about having a break He says he's happy in the relationship but I can't see what there is to be happy about. He seems depressed but its gettibg to the point where I'm feeling down. I gave up a lot to be with him and he just seems to be treating me like . I don't want to fo back home because it would feel like a huge step back. I have no friends down here and I'm feeling isolated and lonely. I can't talk to him because recentlt he just gets annoyed with me really easily, or at least thats how it seems. I found some facebook posts from his ex from 2015. She was saying how ge cooked meals, ran her baths and basically treated her totally different to how he treats me. He's always been lazy in bed, like ge can't be bothered and now theres no intimacy at all. I don't know whats going on. His mum says hes depressed but i am too. It all seems to be about him. Any opinions on this would be very welcome Link to comment
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