Mixed signals

[Fredd478]

Me and the girl I was seeing broke up a few weeks ago. We are just now talking again she meets me for dinner every so often but she hardly ever responds to my texts. My question is if she’s not into me why agree to meet for dinners. Some days she returns texts other days I may get a few I asked for help with my car and she agreed to help me with it. Just confused if someone doesn’t want o get back together why keep meeting them for dinners and lunches but not hardly talk to you any other times

[RayofLighten]

She's not into you. This is just a platonic thing now. She only sees you as a friend that she catches up with once in a while.

[ninjabib]

Yep she's not in this for romance. She probably enjoys your company when she's not busy but you are a low priority for her so stop making her a high priority for you

[Wiseman2]

Sorry to hear this. What was the reason for the breakup? Unfortunately "mixed signals" after a breakup usually mean the friendzone.

We are just now talking again she meets me for dinner every so often but she hardly ever responds to my texts. My question is if she’s not into me why agree to meet for dinners.

[Gary Snyder]

It's called loneliness.

 

By the way, why is this forum here when most people do not get back together? Talk about promoting false hope!

[smackie9]

Mixed signals means not interested romantically, but ok as someone to talk to, or get attention from.

[Rose Mosse]

Seems like she just wants free meals? A bit gross, if you ask me. Stop spoiling her so much if you feel like you're being taken for a ride. I think you would find yourself in far better company (once you ditch her eventually).