yatsue Posted March 31, 2019 Share Posted March 31, 2019 I've been seeing this one guy I have taken quite a liking to. As I got to know him better over the course of nearly two months, I discovered he has a lot of qualities I look for in a partner, which consist of too many to list out here. There is one thing I really need to consider, however. He has been only a few months out from a previous 3 year relationship. He said she came out as a lesbian and it was a mutual decision to end the relationship, stating it was more like a friendship without much romance. He told me he is looking for something serious and asked if I am as well. I am open to it after we get to know each other better (I'm not in a rush to jump into a relationship and he is fine with not being exclusive), but I have reservations about this fact since it is hard to just not pay attention to. He is confident this is not a problem for him and is willing to talk about it. Yesterday they met to exchange the last of each other's stuff, as described to me via text, despite him not wanting to contact her again. Hence the prompt for why I am wondering about this all now. While I believe he is genuine and honest, I wonder if down the line perhaps it would become an unintentional issue or in rebound territory. Do ya'll think he is ready for something serious? Should I continue as is, or perhaps revisit towards something serious after he's single for some time? He reiterates he is into me, is vocal about how he really likes me, has invited me to meet his friends and family multiple times (too soon for me this early so I declined for now), is consistent on making exciting plans once or twice a week, maintains daily contact, and overall clearly shows he wants to get to know me. We're supposed to meet tonight and I know this will come up. Link to comment
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