Rosealie7 Posted March 25, 2019 Share Posted March 25, 2019 Ok so, there’s a guy at work i am very attracted to, and have been for some time. He is 42 and single and has become a born again Christian, i am 30 and atheist. About 6 months ago, after some very serious flirting, i left my phone number on a piece of paper on his windscreen. No call or text all weekend. I asked him about it on the Monday, he said he had found it, but wasn’t sure who left it there. At this point i had to walk away so couldn’t continue the conversation. He yelled out and said that we would chat about this at a later date. A few days later, he corners me and tells me that he didn’t call because he wasn’t sure if it was me that left it and couldn’t believe that i could be interested in him. He then went on to say that he is single, but there is a woman living in Africa that ‘has his heart’. (i knew straight away that was a lie). So that was ok, i respected him for giving me an explanation due to my suspicion that he may have taken a vow of celibacy. it’s been 6 months since then, i avoided him for a while but now he is flirting with me again. Even made a point of sitting next to me at lunch, and stopping in to see me in my section at work. We are close, and we chat about our personal lives, family etc (he has an 18yr old daughter). He even said he expected to see me last weekend at his open house (even though he know's i am not looking to buy a house) i told him i didn't go as i thought it would be too much of an invasion of his privacy. He just lowered his eyes to the ground but didn't say anything. He is always kind to me, makes a point to say my name and we share jokes. What is going on?!! This is the first guy in a very long time that i am attracted and could see myself with in the long term. Another thing i feel may be important, is that he isn't in a very good financial position right now due to him losing his old business. So, what is going on and what do i do? This is hurting me in a way i never expected. I feel like if i ask again, i will come across as a fool as he has rejected my advances once before, but his actions are telling me that he is interested!! Do i take his initial rejection and leave it alone altogether or what? Link to comment
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