Gardenghoul Posted March 21, 2019 Share Posted March 21, 2019 So my bf and I have been together for 2.5 years and when we first started dating we had sex all of the time. I have a very high sex drive so I like to have sex whenever I can and have fun but about a year into our relationship my bf started having panic attacks when I tried to have sex with him. He told me that it’s because of an abusive past relationship where the gf would somehow con him into sex with her like say she was gonna kill herself if he didn’t or something so I backed off and stopped pulling the first move and just let him decide when he wanted to have sex well now for the past 1.5 years we’ve had sex like once every few months or so and for me it’s unenjoyable I never finish because it’s always over so quickly and any foreplays lasts 30 seconds and he wants to jump right in it’s like he’s in a rush. It’s hard for me to talk about what I like in the bedroom when it’s so rare to happen anyways I feel like beggars can’t be choosers🤦🏻♀️ I’ve thought about talking about an open relationship but on the other end I think I’d end up jealous if he was hanging out with someone else too. I don’t know how to handle this, sex has always been a favorite and big factor in my relationships. Please give me your thoughts should I keep trying to work this out? Link to comment
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