Lulumee Posted March 21, 2019 Share Posted March 21, 2019 A couple months ago my ex’s mom had surgery and I decided to send her flowers because I knew that would make her happy and recovering wasn’t going to be easy. Her and I were close at one point and she always had some type of health issue. I hadn’t spoken to her since February and last week I spoke to her went over to visit her because she was going to therapy and still recovering from surgery. In no way was I trying to contact or reach out to my ex, I genuinely care about his mom and I didn’t bring him up at all when I went to see her or the times we had talked. He texted me last night and asked me, “ do you have something to tell me? I figured because you camenover a couple of days ago.” My ex and I were together for 2 and a half years and it didn’t end very well so I stoped all contact with him, although we do have mutual friends I never bothered to say hello or look his direction because I really didn’t want to go into that off and on cycle all over again and I’ve been feeling a lot happier since we don’t talk at all. He has tried to speak with me when we’re out with friends or greet me but I don’t Acknowledge him what so ever. Was I in the wrong for sending his mom flowers? Why would he reach out to me and ask if I wasn’t looking for him or even trying to speak with him? I never responded to his text and I still don’t plan on it because once I answer that’s how the whole situation starts all over and I don’t want a relationship or friendship with him. Link to comment
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