Cinderella000 Posted March 19, 2019 Share Posted March 19, 2019 Hi, ok I have a male friend which I’ve known for a little while, we started becoming more close recently just because we spoke a lot and our conversations were quite deep. I did always try to make them light hearted too. If we texted and I went aways for a short period of time, like I had to make my dinner or had to get back to work he would get upset with me and that I had left him all alone. So I recently said why dont we just use texting to arrange meeting up and phoning. So that was that. He is quite flirty with me and I can be too as he is a very attractive guy. I didn’t “fancy” him but since he has been in contact with me everyday and he is very caring and extremely completementary of me and he always says he likes me a lot and expresses how much he likes my personality. I love his caring side and I have been feeling more attached to him that I want more than just friends. The thing is he is a virgin, never had a girlfriend and he has certainly religious beliefs that if I didn’t share them we couldn’t be together. So I told him I was feeling a connection of being more his girlfriend but he can’t be my boyfriend so I told him I’m going to have to cut him off for a while. He has got so upset by this that I’m confused. He says it has triggered things from his past (his mother left him when he was young). I haven’t spiked to him for two days and according to a friend of mine he has posted on social media how hurt he is buy someone cutting him off and that it’s made him sad. Why is he not understanding that I need this? Is he being selfish? Link to comment
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