daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 Why isn't there a cyber girl who just wants to see the words and imagine Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Capricorn3 871 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 Not sure what you're talking about. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 Not sure what you're talking about.Was just wondering if there was any middle ground between reality and fantasy in a Cyber relationship Quote Link to post Share on other sites
melancholy123 434 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 Probably not much! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Capricorn3 871 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 It would really help if you would elaborate on what you want. Talking in riddles doesn't help much. What's the story? What's going on? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 Probably not much!So how do find out how she wants it if there is no room to move Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 It would really help if you would elaborate on what you want. Talking in riddles doesn't help much. What's the story? What's going on?Sorry was trying to be delicate. So here's the thing in the past having come across girls that want to cyber chat usually want gifts or money to keep telling how good I was when I called them on it. I wasn't so desirable. So was just wondering if there was a middle ground or was I just being a fool. Online relationships are just as real as flesh and blood ones Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 And now I have naught Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SherrySher 878 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 Was just wondering if there was any middle ground between reality and fantasy in a Cyber relationship Not a whole lot. In real life as opposed to online is hugely different. People can make believe who they are online and even if they're not faking, it's really difficult to get a true sense of someone with a computer screen in between you two. I have no doubt you can form a strong friendship but as for a romantic relationship, it's not as easy to get a real idea of how it truly is with it being all online. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SherrySher 878 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 Don't give people gifts or money online. It's more than likely scammers. Unless you met them in real life and have an actual relationship, don't send them anything. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 Not a whole lot. In real life as opposed to online is hugely different. People can make believe who they are online and even if they're not faking, it's really difficult to get a true sense of someone with a computer screen in between you two. I have no doubt you can form a strong friendship but as for a romantic relationship, it's not as easy to get a real idea of how it truly is with it being all online.Online these days there is more anticipation, especially over long distances. But then again someone at the end of the street can be a jerk. You just find out sooner. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 To find someone adult enough to know what they want and how they want it is so difficult. Even in life people don't say what they mean and I have been burnt a few times trusting Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SherrySher 878 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 I think everyone has Daggy, I know I have been. The one thing I have learnt for certain is, people have a much easier time pretending and faking online. Which is why I don't trust it unless we meet in real life and spend actual time together. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 I think everyone has Daggy, I know I have been. The one thing I have learnt for certain is, people have a much easier time pretending and faking online. Which is why I don't trust it unless we meet in real life and spend actual time together.Thank you for understanding. It's not easy admitting when your all alone even if it is all in one's head. I gave up false pretence long ago. Probably why my real life friends list is so low. Only a few see the real me which is clumsy at the best of times. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SherrySher 878 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 I, again can relate. But it's my choice. I am polite to all but only trust and keep a few close. Better quality rather than quantity, right? I can tell you though, in my experience, finding someone you genuinely connect with in a romantic sense, that checks all the boxes and feels the same way back, is damn hard! It can take a very long time to find that person. So don't feel bad if you're having a tough time, many on this forum are. It can be like finding a needle in a haystack. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 (edited) Thank you for such kind words. I have always found a magnet does the haystack dilemma. But pointing in the right direction of the haystack would help Edited January 21, 2019 by daggydog Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SherrySher 878 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 Great thought! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 Great thought!Your welcome :) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 2,279 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 Stick with video games. No one wants "cyber relationships" except scammers, catfish and assorted weird people. Stay away from it. Date locally and in real life and use "cyber" for gaming or communities etc.Was just wondering if there was any middle ground between reality and fantasy in a Cyber relationship Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SherrySher 878 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 "weird people"...lol...I dunno Wiseman, I would say it's more anxious possibly awkward people who don't have the easiest time meeting people in person. Don't downgrade social anxiety, it's a real thing and a real struggle. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 Stick with video games. No one wants "cyber relationships" except scammers, catfish and assorted weird people. Stay away from it. Date locally and in real life and use "cyber" for gaming or communities etc.It seems to use it what it was made for. Information Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 2,279 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 It's fine for gaming, online communities, social media, forums like this, etc. There's a time and place and reason. Romance? No. Too fraught with excess emotional involvement and the possibility of all sorts of predators from scammers to catfish to very sick people, trolls, cyberbullies etc.. No for "romance". And if that's what daddygog is trying to get at here then they'll just close this thread."weird people"...lol...I dunno Wiseman, I would say it's more anxious possibly awkward people who don't have the easiest time meeting people in person. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 It's fine for gaming, online communities, social media, forums like this, etc. There's a time and place and reason. Romance? No. Too fraught with excess emotional involvement and the possibility of all sorts of predators from scammers to catfish to very sick people, trolls, cyberbullies etc.. No for "romance". And if that's what daddygog is trying to get at here then they'll just close this thread.It was just a question Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SherrySher 878 Posted January 21, 2019 Share Posted January 21, 2019 Ha ha...with whom? I'm married. I think it's a legit question. But I have learnt all these same lessons and I also know of many many people who suffer from social anxiety and don't find it as easy to meet people in person and jump to dating like that. I agree with many of your points Wiseman, however I think there is more to online dating, for some, then to just assume they are shut ins and weirdos. But you do have many valid points. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daggydog 1 Posted January 21, 2019 Author Share Posted January 21, 2019 I think I found the answer. But being isolated the internet is the only way to stay in touch with friends. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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