Is it possible to orgasm without ejaculation?

[ironpony]

As a guy, I thought of myself as multi-orgasmic in the sense that I think I am going to ejaculate, and I have a small orgasm, but I don't ejaculate... Then I think I come close to ejaculating again, and orgasm, but don't ejaculate... then again, and again, etc.

 

Then finally I build up to the big orgasm and then ejaculate with it. But I was told by other guys that all these orgasms do not count as orgasms, and it only counts if you ejaculate with it.

 

A few months ago, I had sex with a woman and orgasmed in about two minutes or less, cause she was really hot, and she thought that I faked it and didn't believe I could come that fast. Or she said she didn't think I could so I thought she assumed I faked it, especially when she asked to see my condom cause she wanted to see if I ejaculated.

 

I thought I probably did cause of the orgasm I had, but it turned out that it the condom was dry on the inside and I did not ejaculate inside it. So I explained to her that I had a dry orgasm, but she kind of raised an eyebrow like she never heard of that.

 

So why do you think? Does it count as an orgasm for a guy if there is no ejaculation, out of curiosity?

[SGH]

Yes, though the reasons for dry orgasms vary. Why don't you google the topic? I'm not sure your question is appropriate for this forum.

[DanZee]

Yes, you can have a dry orgasm. Are you on any meds? They can relax a tiny muscle in your bladder that directs the semen into the bladder instead of the penis. Also that muscle can become damaged if you had any bladder infections or STDs. Or the passageway is just very narrow. It makes sense that a really big orgasm might force semen through either the passageway or the muscle while regular orgasm don't. Younger guys (and girls) don't know about this problem because it usually happens with people in later life, especially with those who have diabetes or take blood pressure medicine or muscle relaxers. If it worries you, you should check with your doctor. There are some drugs that can help ejaculation like pseudophedrine, a simple cold medicine. Otherwise, it's usually not harmful.

[ironpony]

Sorry for not being appropriate on this forum, if I was.

 

Yes, you can have a dry orgasm. Are you on any meds? They can relax a tiny muscle in your bladder that directs the semen into the bladder instead of the penis. Also that muscle can become damaged if you had any bladder infections or STDs. Or the passageway is just very narrow. It makes sense that a really big orgasm might force semen through either the passageway or the muscle while regular orgasm don't. Younger guys (and girls) don't know about this problem because it usually happens with people in later life, especially with those who have diabetes or take blood pressure medicine or muscle relaxers. If it worries you, you should check with your doctor. There are some drugs that can help ejaculation like pseudophedrine, a simple cold medicine. Otherwise, it's usually not harmful.

 

This is interesting, cause a good amount of the time, I have to urinate shortly afterwards, and maybe this is why? Sometimes I take Cialis, but other than that, no meds.

[reinventmyself]

 

A few months ago, I had sex with a woman and orgasmed in about two minutes or less, cause she was really hot, and she thought that I faked it and didn't believe I could come that fast. Or she said she didn't think I could so I thought she assumed I faked it, especially when she asked to see my condom cause she wanted to see if I ejaculated.

 

I thought I probably did cause of the orgasm I had, but it turned out that it the condom was dry on the inside and I did not ejaculate inside it. So I explained to her that I had a dry orgasm, but she kind of raised an eyebrow like she never heard of that.

Geez Ironpony. Is this all we ever talk about?

Anyway. Who challenges each other in bed and makes the other have to show proof for it?

[saluk]

Geez Ironpony. Is this all we ever talk about?

Anyway. Who challenges each other in bed and makes the other have to show proof for it?

 

Yeah . She thought he decided the sex was so bad he would fake an orgasm after 2 minutes?

[reinventmyself]

Yeah . She thought he decided the sex was so bad he would fake an orgasm after 2 minutes?

Hi Saluk. .

[ironpony]

Yeah . She thought he decided the sex was so bad he would fake an orgasm after 2 minutes?

 

I don't know, I guess.

[Wiseman2]

Why are you playing sperm police with her?

she asked to see my condom cause she wanted to see if I ejaculated.

[ironpony]

Well she asked to see it, cause she wanted to know I didn't fake it.

[LightWave93]

If the sex is consensual, and you both enjoy it, then...does it matter?

 

Yes, dry orgasms happen. They are common. If she doesn't believe you, tell her to do her own research.

[reinventmyself]

On 7/4/2018 at 10:21 PM, ironpony said:

But I was told by other guys that all these orgasms do not count as orgasms, and it only counts if you ejaculate with it.

 

 

 

 

Don't listen to your friends.  It's perfectly normal.  It's your normal.

And no reason to defend it to your lady friend.