KitCat1405 Posted March 13, 2018 Share Posted March 13, 2018 Ever since my fiancé and I got together, he’s told me he wanted to marry me and have children with me. He has even reminded me that that is what he wants, has told me he wants to be financially stable before we have children, which I agree with. He has even has told me name options we should consider. And now, he wants nothing to do with them. We were in the middle of a conversation on a timeline we’d like to be on: when we should get married and start a family. Then, not even 2-3 hours later, he doesn’t see the point in children anymore and doesn’t what anything to do with them. I was so blindsided and heartbroken. His parents are in his life, but they divorced when he was really young. He’s told me before that he’s hated he never had that strong example of a healthy marriage and healthy parenting. And he’s told me so many times that he wanted to use that experience he had, and use that to be what he always wanted: a loving husband to me and a loving father to our children. He’s always had hope in that. I don’t know what happened to make him change everything in a matter of hours. We both believed in the future we could have together, and we both wanted marriage and children. Now I feel like I standing alone in that hope and that he’s throwing away everything we’ve worked so hard to build. I just heartbroken and I don’t know what to do anymore. Please help me? Link to comment
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