askdan Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 The scenario is getting more ridiculous each year. I got married in 2008 with a woman who has been pursuing me for nearly 2 years. Fast-forward 6 years later, she becomes obsessed with divorce and is pursuing this with a tunnel vision. So, I gave her what I wanted, and went along with her request in 2016. I signed the papers, and we are now divorced. So while my ex-wife is still single to this day, I am now in a new relationship with a woman and we are getting married at Church later this year. So I am in the process of what we call a Marriage Annulment, which is a mandatory step to get married in a Catholic Church. When I kindly requested my ex-wife for her cooperation in this process, she became very vengeful and vindictive. She calls this a ''farce'' and that I am going to church to ''badmouth'' her. So I tried to calmly rationalize with her and explain to her that this was simply a formal church process, that I was not going to church to give a testimony, but to no avail. It's like she doesn't want me to move on and be happy. If she was so hell-bent on getting a divorce 4 years ago, why is she so upset that I go ahead with a Catholic marriage and proceed with a formal annulment of our marriage? I tried to explain to her that she should see this as a formal last step to divorce, but all of a sudden it's like the tables have turned, and she won't cooperate. I am really scratching my head on this one. Any idea why a woman would turn from being pro-divorce to wanting to prevent her ex-husband from moving on? Has anyone been through any similar experiences? Very confused...:suspicion: Link to comment
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