Love Triangle

[yagirlasecret]

I've been seeing this guy for 1 year and then some. I'd like to think that I love him but lately (kind of) I find my heart somewhere else. I always talk to this guy I was talking to before I got into my current relationship. I think I'm still in love with him. I've tried to talk to him multiple times throughout the relationship to just be friends, but every time we talk we just connect and really like feel each other on a different level. He gives me butterflies and everything else. I'm just not sue if I want to leave everything with my current boyfriend to act on these feelings. What should I do?

[j.man]

That's not what a love triangle is. That's just emotional infidelity.

[DaisyMayPorter]

That’s such an interesting question – should I break up with my boyfriend for this other guy?

 

Does your boyfriend give you butterflies? Does he make you happy? Does he fulfill you? It sounds like no if you are thinking of breaking up with him for this other guy? Forget about the other guy for a second and think about the person you are with. If don’t feel it for your boyfriend, then you should break up with your him. This is the right thing to do for his sake. Then after you break up with him, you can concentrate on your feelings for this other guy.

[Wiseman2]

Why didn't it work out before you met your current bf?

I always talk to this guy I was talking to before I got into my current relationship. I think I'm still in love with him.

[ThatwasThen]

What does "talking" to a guy actually mean? Have you met him in person or was this "talking" strictly an online/text sort of thing?

[catfeeder]

I tend to finish up my old business before starting anything new with someone else. Otherwise, I'm just showcasing a capacity for disloyalty that will do the opposite of bond me with a new person in the way that I want.