chocolate_86 Posted February 20, 2018 Share Posted February 20, 2018 I have been with my gorgeous boyfriend for nearly 4 years. We have lived together for three. I cook, i clean, i do all the washing. We both work full time. He finishes earlier in the day. He has his hobby, and i like that he still enjoys it and i go watch him every week.. one thing that's really frustrating me is he loves socializing so much so that we don't do much outside of the house together just us two. We do go out to Dinner and the movies a fair bit but i would like to do other things too. I'm adventurous and he isn't. And when i say he likes to socialize im always invited; he doesn't do much without me but sometimes i just don't want to socialize and he always does. I don't mind him going, its perfectly normal for him to have his time and me to have mine. I figure maybe i am the problem and instead of waiting on him hand and foot i should maybe start doing things for myself and being a little selfish and that way he won't take me for granted as much. Am i being too harsh? Part of me thinks maybe i am, but the other part says he needs to stop treating me like his grandmother. He has been very spoilt all of his life. I love spoiling him but need to draw the line. His grandmother gives him money. One birthday she gave him $500. She does anything he wants. She cooks for him and he doesn't lift a finger when shes in the kitchen doing dishes..shes 93. She apparently does that so she can play the victim to her daughter(his mum) and guilt her into doing what she wants. I bought him something he really wanted for his birthday..$700 worth and he askes me what else he is getting from me. I absolutely love him with all my heart but i feel he needs to learn he is 28 years old and i'm not grandma. Am i being unreasonable? Link to comment
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