Please help me. I'm desperate

[reinventmyself]

The same people went from saying I was overreacting to saying I had every right to not trust her and how she had done something unforgivable. So no.I dont unfortunately. What's your opinion?

My opinion is you received a decent amount of feedback. From one extreme to another.

No one can make the decision for you. You take what you want from this and leave the rest.

 

There are a lot of people who come here for advise.

It's just not my style to respond to those who have already been given a more responses than most and still come back wanting more.

Good luck

[thealchemist]

My advice is to keep opening up new posts on the same subject until someone gives you the answer you want.

[Hollyj]

Why do you keep on creating these threads?

 

I think that you are the one with the problem: going through her phone, controlling behavior and insecurity issues. Do her a favor. Break up with her.

[Capttrae]

Either deal with it or don’t. Her past is her past. What you need to be more concerned with is yalls future

[melancholy123]

I think you should let it go and get over it. If you cant, then break up with her.

[JaggerJim]

Again, you don't like her morals because they don't line up with yours. You can't get over this fact.

 

Find someone that you can control because that's obviously what you want to do.

[MissCanuck]

I do feel like I'm getting over it. I just want some more feedback to cement my answer and future with this girl.

 

The fact that you have now started another thread on the exact same topic indicates the opposite, OP.

[Capricorn3]

Threads have been merged.

[Seymore]

Lol what is this silliness? I mean I could forgive slipping up, being weak and checking her phone, but you're holding her to stuff that happened even before you were dating - they didn't even SLEEP together!

 

Let the girl go, man. And get help for your control issues because you're gonna hold this over her head forever and she'll leave anyway.