BayAreaBabe86 Posted April 23, 2005 Share Posted April 23, 2005 I have this major problem. I am pretty and everything so I don't have much of a problem pulling dudes.. but keeping them is a whole nother story.. how do you keep a guy interested without giving up too much too fast,or seeming like you're moving too slow? I really need help with this one guys! Link to comment
metallicachica247 Posted April 23, 2005 Share Posted April 23, 2005 they arent worth it if they dont stay. if they dont like you for who you are, then forget them. at least you get a bf, i dont. lol so anyways youll do better... i promise you can find someone who is actually worth your time. Link to comment
DN Posted April 23, 2005 Share Posted April 23, 2005 Pretty lasts for a couple of dates but attitude and character is what keeps good people interested. So either you are dating the wrong guys who want you for the wrong reasons or there may be something that you are doing that you are not aware of that is causing the problem. Some self analysis may be in order. Link to comment
Belinda Posted April 23, 2005 Share Posted April 23, 2005 Alot of guys just pull pretty girls for brownie points Not because they necessarily want a relationship. Maybe these are the kinda guys you were trying? I know its tough, and you never really know whos sincere and who isnt.. but keep trying. Im sure there will be a guy out there that will respect you for who you are, not how pretty you look. Thats the type of guy that will make you truley happy. Trust me. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 If the guy is really into you and you have alot in common, he'll stick around. If he doesn't then he isn't worth a second thought. You don't need to do anything to keep a guy other then be yourself. Link to comment
LifePuzzle Posted April 24, 2005 Share Posted April 24, 2005 Alot of guys just pull pretty girls for brownie points Yeah, I know loads of people like that..Its like a competition with them so they can show off to their mates. I agree with the other people I reckon you just havnt found the true gems yet. Link to comment
ComputerGuy Posted May 11, 2005 Share Posted May 11, 2005 If a guy leaves he wasnt really interested to begin with, or doesnt like who you really are when compared to his imaginations of what you're like before he got to know you properly. The guys who you WANT to keep are the ones that stick around because they like who you are, and will try and be there for you even when they feel you dont want anything to do with them at that particular moment. Link to comment
asdf Posted May 12, 2005 Share Posted May 12, 2005 I have a similar problem. I can pull them easily, I think girls are mainly interested in my looks and when I act coc.ky, but I never know how to take it up past that much. Either I'm not interested, or if I am interested, I get scared as hell of liking her. Link to comment
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