4 weeks, hot/heavy, Yesterday I Love U, too much in common, I wanna date- Dumped within 40 sec

[bummedout101]

Apparently it was.

 

She never went on the date, she said she bailed at last minute.

[IAmFCA]

Do what is appropriate based on what you know of her, in this moment.

 

She hasn't chosen you and has some things to sort out.

 

Attach to your own future.

[bummedout101]

Do what is appropriate based on what you know of her, in this moment.

 

She hasn't chosen you and has some things to sort out.

 

Attach to your own future.

 

Thank you ! It seems like the only choice I can make now- if its meant to be it will be.

[IAmFCA]

Thank you ! It seems like the only choice I can make now- if its meant to be it will be.

 

This might not make sense right away, but is the only choice you need to make, even if in relationship. All team outcomes require a team effort. If you put a relationship with her onto your path, it will quickly become evident that you are investing in a goal that is beyond your control. Don't ever do that, ever.

 

Define your goals in terms of choices you can control.

[bummedout101]

UPDATE

 

Did no contact for just over 3 weeks and then sent her a short email. We have been dating since which is just over a month. She went on a couple of dates during that period and that didn't work out so well. In retrospect the time apart is what we both provably needed so I think we are both taking it at a more measured pace. The chemistry and connection are stronger now.