Jump to content

I'm a little scared by the way my ex broke up with me


SeaBisquit
 Share

Recommended Posts

I don't know if I'm over reacting but my ex is a emotional abuser and the way he broke up with me seems strange I thought..He 're me out and then later texted me and said I need to find someone that loves me unconditionally that I deserve that. Then he said he doesn't love me and that we are friends and that he cares about me alot and he will always take care of me..I told him i dont want to be his friend and he said don't say mean things I'm a good friend and he will always do whatever he can for me..I'm like why? It's over I don't want you it's no surprise. He kept saying he doesn't understand why I have to be mean..is this just more of the emotional abuse? I always thought when your done your done.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Without wanting to empathise with him, abusive people aren't usually inherently/intentionally abusive. Abuse happens when a person is out of their depth emotionally and lacks the proper skills to navigate a tense situation. That doesn't excuse it, but it's a necessary thing to understand when separating yourself from abuse. You should cut ties with this person if they are emotionally volatile.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

"He cheated on me in the past..He blamed his cheating on me saying I was pissed at him when he cheated. I dated to go to a exotic dance club I thought it would be fun for both of us..it was a dance show for couples but he didn't want to go.. He talks about his ex girlfreind alot..I get sick of hearing about it. We have a lot of history togethet that why i stay and try to stick it out."

Why did he have to dump you? Why didn't you dumb this creep, long ago??????

 

I hope you don't go back to him, AGAIN! Get some therapy. You do not like/respect yourself, which is evident by being with this creep. I hope you got yourself tested!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Restore formatting

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

 Share

  • Top Discussions this Week

  • Our picks

    • Adultery - the New Monogamy?
      Adultery is the Future of Marriage? The ancient institution of monogamous marriage is ill-suited to the exigencies of modern Western civilization. People of both genders live and work longer (which renders sexual exclusivity impracticable); travel far and away frequently; and are exposed to tempting romantic alternatives via social networking and in various workplace and social settings. As leisure time increases and physical survival is all but effortlessly guaranteed, recreation takes precedence over procreation.

       
      • 0 replies
    • Healing the Child Within
      In today’s episode of The Terri Cole Show, you are in for a treat. I am interviewing a new pal, his name is Nate Postlethwait, but you may know him as @nate_postlethwait on Instagram.

       
      • 0 replies
    • How to Sort Your Life Out | Self Improvement
      This video is about how to sort your life out. There are four important things you need to do to sort your life out ASAP.

       
      • 0 replies
    • Triggers
      You may be tempted to deal with your triggers by avoiding everything or everyone that triggers you. Although that will help you feel better in the moment, it will make life a lot harder for you over all. Instead, here's an emotionally intelligent way of managing your triggers that will help you a lot more.

       
      • 0 replies
    • No Intimacy Without Personal Boundaries (Q&A)
      The ability to thrive in intimacy is inextricably linked to the capacity to maintain and enforce personal boundaries. In personality disordered patients, both are sorely compromised.

       
      • 0 replies
×
×
  • Create New...