ArianaTanmi Posted January 1, 2018 Share Posted January 1, 2018 Hi everyone! We sustain in a committed long distance relationship and for the last month his behavior has changed. We don’t have morning /evening calls, which in the beginning he told was because of problems at work. Sometimes he was dissapearing and seeing my call and never calling back. In the evenings I felt he intentionally didn’t reply for a long time because he knew I can call him. I was patient and thought that problems at work can be hard. But for the last week he was answering me with a 4-6 hours delay, never call, and when I start texting in the evening he said “sorry I’m going out now” I felt smth is going completely wrong and I called him in a hour. He missed all my calls. The following morning I called him and he delayed my calls. I asked what happened and he texted “oh I just woke up, I have to run” When in the day I asked him what is happening , tell me, he ignored and told me “everything is fine” Then I was thinking and contemplating all facts I came to conclusion he is cheating on me and doesn’t want to tell me that. Since before he always called to me intentionally showing he is alone in the flat (I didn’t ask for that) and now he is always unavailable in the mornings and evenings. When I tried to break up he said I’m crazy and what is going on... Now I left home for holidays and we don’t talk much. For 2-3 days we haven’t texted each other. He congratulated me with new year and then disappeared again. Even I see him online in Whats up , he doesn’t open my messages for hours .. Who has been in the same situation? It’s just me overreacting and insecure or smth is really happening ? Link to comment
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