Meeting up with my Ex

[Joey1988]

My ex girlfriend and I dated for 4 months. Everything was going perfect. Meeting each other’s parents and friends the whole nine yards.

 

We ended up breaking up because she didn’t feel ready for a relationship. A few months before we started talking she got out of a 2 year relationship. I understood where she was coming from and handled the breakup well.

 

I have not been in contact with her for about 20 days. She recently asked if we could meet up and talk. I agreed because I still have strong feelings.

 

What I am looking for is some advice on what to expect and how to handle it?

[ThatwasThen]

No way of knowing what to expect. Why didn't you ask her why she wanted to talk?

[LightWave93]

My ex girlfriend and I dated for 4 months. Everything was going perfect. Meeting each other’s parents and friends the whole nine yards.

 

We ended up breaking up because she didn’t feel ready for a relationship. A few months before we started talking she got out of a 2 year relationship. I understood where she was coming from and handled the breakup well.

 

I have not been in contact with her for about 20 days. She recently asked if we could meet up and talk. I agreed because I still have strong feelings.

 

What I am looking for is some advice on what to expect and how to handle it?

 

I'd advise going in with no expectations. I've recently come out of a similar situation except now she's seeing another guy.

 

I hope it works out for you dude, truly, but just don't set your hopes too high. Talk things out, see how it goes. :)

[lilyv]

Maybe she wants to explore, take it slow or test the waters. I wouldn't worry too much, see how you feel and if she's receptive in giving to you, not just getting attention.