Gemma Jay Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 I have been with my boyfriend about 12 months now but there are some real issues. Everything was going great until I found some messages on his phone. Now these messages were from 5 years ago, but my issues was what was in them. There were vulgar comments, he'd talked about women he'd been with etc. They showed a complete new side of him. When I questioned him, he said that they were from the past and that most of the things he said in them were lies anyway. He was just 'bigging himself up'. He also said somethings were true and I asked him the surname of one particular girl. He said he didn't know, couldn't remember. I found out a few months later that it was his cousins daughter and he'd lied about we not remembering. This time I was more hurt because he'd lied. Since this, I have real trust issues. When he's at work, I quiz him about who he's taking to. Even when I see him talking to girls at work, I get snappy and nasty. He does nothing for me. He'd rather spend do time at work than with me, that's my thoughts. I don't know what to do anymore. I look at every girl at work thinking 'would he go with her'? I say in my head of the paranoia stops, he won't but then I get angry and start again resulting in me getting upset thinking ill drive him away anyway. I don't know what to do. I feel depressed with it all. Link to comment
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