IamGroot Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 I’ll bullet this love story, to try make it shorter and easier to answer -Met this girl in college she had boyfriend - Did Yoga together, saw each other once in while and stayed friendly - Eventually after college, she left her boyfriend and started working at the store across from me at the mall - Our friendship changed to more flirting and talking about getting together for dates - Went out 2-3 different times on date/ yoga dates. Eventually on our last meet up we saw a movie, smoked pot and started to get heated. Her mother was dying of cancer at the time and she was leaving to go home to Indiana in a few weeks for the holidays to be with the family and not come back to school the next semester. She was greatly hinting at taking it farther though I was so high and empathized with her feelings about her mother and I couldn’t do it. - afterwards we kept at positive texting until she bailed on seeing something I was apart and then just flew home without saying a word. - I send a goodbye text saying how I felt and that I won’t be around when she comes back after that semester off as I will be on tour with a traveling stunt show. - Doesn’t have any social media accept Snapchat which she sometimes deactivates. So I have no idea how she is doing since. - Didn’t talk to me for 6-7 months to which she randomly calls while I was in San Jose (doing yoga to myself ironically lol) and apologizing for everything. Tells me her mother died and it was hard for her and she shut herself off took time to herself and went for her yoga teacher certification and doing better. She said she wanted to see me when my tour came to her city and that she misses me and was very thankful I didn’t hang up and tell her to off. - We continue over the next few months to reconnect and snap each other as she redownloaded the app and would only really text me on there. It evolves into more flirting, saying she’d want to travel more to visit me and racey sexy pics as time goes on. She doesn’t always open them right away, though it was fine early on as we still had plenty of time till I arrived. The week before I arrived in her city she answered once on Tuesday with a pic and then didn’t responded to my offer for comp tickets to the show and didn’t open anything else I sent after. 5 days later I called her Sunday before my roast trip to let her know I was on a bus to Indiana. Left a voicemail and still haven’t heard back... Now I haven’t blown up her phone, with only a few snaps and one voicemail from last week. I have only this week and then onto the next city, and she knew I was coming. Even if something is going on, or she found someone else and couldn’t see me I still think it’d be nice to hear it from her. I don’t want to send anymore snaps or calls, though should I send something again during this week or the day before my last day? I actually like this person and it’s not just a hookup even though she is way more flirty I am. I’m not holding any expectations, though I know I’m not just some guy to her and it makes no sense to flat leave me on the week I arrive after a couple months of build up... I’m just not too sure how to approach this. Its still the early part of the week, though I have the feeling she won’t reach out to me till I’m gone and then after will send a whole message with excuses and about how she’s sorry... I’m not one to ignore people, though if that happens I don’t if I have it in me to respond to that, like the opportunity was there and it was thrown away. Any advice on how I should approach my communication with her on this week into next week? Link to comment
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