Jk1989 Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 I’ve been working on things with my ex bf. We dated for two months about 5 months ago. He came back into my life and wanted to work on things( our breakup involved no cheating). We’ve been working on things for about a month, everything has been going wonderful, literally perfect. Well, while we were out at brunch I saw a text he left sent another girl “hey beautiful”. I immediately got upset. I asked who she was and he told me a girl he dated back in high school that’s going through a divorce and he saw her when he was back home a few weeks back. We are in Cali, his back home is in Alabama. He told me the text didn’t mean anything and all this other stuff. But never the less it hurt me a lot. A month in and he’s texting someone else( she didn’t respond). But in my head in makes me wonder what else he’s doing or talking to or if that was even the first text and now i feel like it damaged the trust i thought we had. I told him how much it hurt me and that it was disrespectful to me and he said he understood. It’s been two days since i saw that text and it still bothers me. I would like to talk to him again about where this is going and basically just see if i wish to continue to work on things. We are not officially back together yet but i feel if you are working on a relationship you shouldn’t be texting other women at all. Please let me know advice or thoughts. I would like to talk to him tonight Link to comment
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