Hollyj Posted November 26, 2017 Share Posted November 26, 2017 You liked the insta-relationship because you know they don't really know you and you know it's safe -you can always say "oh too soon!" because it is. It's all about sweet nothings and clouds -not reality so you don't have to commit to any of it and you know that many of those that start that way end quickly. I think you're confusing maybe aloof with someone who is healthy and reasonably cautious with a new person -who might feel like going at the speed of light but wants to be a bit more restrained and disciplined so they don't burn out or overwhelm their partner. Spot on!!!!! Mandee, we are telling you the same thing. You can choose to listen, or continue on the path of choosing inappropriate men. Link to comment
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