Lonelygay Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 My ex and i met over the summer. I recently came out and he is my first actual relationship. In the summer were were head over hills for each other. When the semester started thats when things started to go downhill. We live an hour apart and he got stressed with school so he stopped responding to me often. We decided to take a break but the conversation faded completely. We know only contact each other once a day through snapchat. He only seems to really want to talk to me when im doing something on my story. Should I really be considering this a “break” or do i need to move on. I dont know what i would have done to make him not be interested in my anymore. But we explicitly decided to take a break rather than break up. Ill be moving to his college town, my hometown, in once i graduate in a month. I just dont know what i should do or how i should feel about this. I obviously am stoll crazy about him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrina Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 I don't believe in breaks. I believe in working on the relationship and if that fails, ending it. Life is consistently stressful. It's no reason to fade away. People who want to be with you will discuss how to rearrange things or deal with things TOGETHER when life becomes stressful. When you're a priority to a person, you know it. You're not. Time to move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jibralta Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 I agree with Andrina. In my experience, a 'break' is merely a way to keep someone on the hook while you go off and do your own thing. You should definitely move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lonelygay Posted November 11, 2017 Author Share Posted November 11, 2017 Do you think I should also stop the streak on Snapchat as well? I just still feel madly in love with him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrina Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 You can feel madly in love with someone who feels the same for you. You have to ditch the ones who feel mediocre about you, first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 Yes, I would move on if I were you. Your relationship is too young to already be calling a time out. That's a sign that you're not a match, at this point in your lives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jibralta Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 Do you think I should also stop the streak on Snapchat as well? I just still feel madly in love with him Yes, end it. Free yourself up for someone better. You will feel madly in love again, I promise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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