Fake Instagram Girlfriend (I need help)

[Draco123]

Hello,

I can't reveal any actual specifics here, but, I'm in the 8th grade and acknowledge I may be a bit young for this site. But, I need help. I'm stressed.

Okay, last year, I liked a girl. I won't reveal her name, but I really liked her. She was pretty, nice to me, and we were supposed to date the following year. Anyways, before the summer started, she said she didn't like me anymore and that we were over. I was heartbroken. Completely heartbroken. Later that summer, she was still following me on Instagram and I decided to make a fake account of a girl and make believe I was dating her to get her jealous. She was hot, but they were all fake pictures. I noticed that kids at my school thought it was really a girl, and she was attractive so they went for her. But, little did they know that the girl wasn't behind the screen. I was. And, I didn't want to come out about the truth because it would make me look desperate. Anyway, a boy at my school started texting this girl (who was actually me) and still is to this day. He thinks he's dating her but isn't and I'd break the news to him but I don't want rumors to start, and more importantly if I were to "break up" with him over the account he would be upset. I need help - this is really starting to stress me out.

[Jibralta]

Wow, you're catfishing him.

 

Your choices are to either break up or come clean. It's as simple as that. You can't avoid consequences. You're going to look bad, or he's going to feel bad, or both. Even if you continue to mislead him (which you shouldn't) there will be consequences.

 

Why in the world did you get yourself into this mess? Was there a reason why you led him him to believe that he was dating you?

[Draco123]

Wow, you're catfishing him.

 

Your choices are to either break up or come clean. It's as simple as that. You can't avoid consequences. You're going to look bad, or he's going to feel bad, or both. Even if you continue to mislead him (which you shouldn't) there will be consequences.

 

Why in the world did you get yourself into this mess? Was there a reason why you led him him to believe that he was dating you?

 

I'm aware that I'm cat fishing him, and it's a big mess that I've gotten myself into. And no, there was no particular reason, he texted the account and asked the "girl" out. I said yes because it would've hurt him if I were to say no. But in the end, he'll be surprised and hurt either way. I'm not sure what to do. He's a lot bigger than me, he's ripped, and surely more popular at school. I never expected to get into this mess. I never wanted to get into this mess, either. Things just went the wrong way and I need to do something about it.

[Draco123]

Keep in mind that the whole school also thinks this girl is real. Including teachers. I made it seem like I was dating her also, to get over the girl I had liked. I wish I could erase what happened because I had made some bad decisions and mistakes then, but I need to deal with this and nobody else besides myself knows about this.

[Jibralta]

Keep in mind that the whole school also thinks this girl is real. Including teachers. I made it seem like I was dating her also, to get over the girl I had liked. I wish I could erase what happened because I had made some bad decisions and mistakes then, but I need to deal with this and nobody else besides myself knows about this.

 

Chances are, the whole school is not as interested in this girl as you think they are. Not even the teachers.

 

But even if the whole world was watching your fake instagram profile, it still comes down to a simple solution, one of three choices: confess, disappear, or persist. Life goes on.

[pippy longstocking]

Just delete everything there is to do with her and move on knowing now , how it escalates .

[Draco123]

Chances are, the whole school is not as interested in this girl as you think they are. Not even the teachers.

 

But even if the whole world was watching your fake instagram profile, it still comes down to a simple solution, one of three choices: confess, disappear, or persist. Life goes on.

 

Those really are my options, I'm aware of that. Continuing with this constant stress isn't the right route to go on. I'm debating on which two options to go with, because either one will hurt him. One will humiliate me, and the other will hurt him. It's not a good situation, and these weren't my intentions. I feel as if my life is paused because of this, and I can't go on with it.

[Draco123]

Just delete everything there is to do with her and move on knowing now , how it escalates .

 

I contemplated that for a while, but I'd need to take action with the non-existent relationship that is currently going on first.

[Draco123]

Chances are, the whole school is not as interested in this girl as you think they are. Not even the teachers.

 

But even if the whole world was watching your fake instagram profile, it still comes down to a simple solution, one of three choices: confess, disappear, or persist. Life goes on.

 

I'm assuming by disappear you mean delete all traces of the account? Wouldn't I need to take action on the relationship first?

[mike7788]

Break up with the kid

put in your instagram bio that you're moving away or no longer using instagram or something, then just ignore everything and forget about it.

[Draco123]

Chances are, the whole school is not as interested in this girl as you think they are. Not even the teachers.

 

But even if the whole world was watching your fake instagram profile, it still comes down to a simple solution, one of three choices: confess, disappear, or persist. Life goes on.

 

Break up with the kid

put in your instagram bio that you're moving away or no longer using instagram or something, then just ignore everything and forget about it.

 

That's what I've been thinking, but at school he tries to talk to me about how much he likes her. It would hurt me doing it just as much as it would hurt him. I'll do it, though.