Talllad33 Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 So I have a colleague at work who I spend hours every day talking to and flirting with. I like her a lot. On a works night out we spent the whole time together dancing and flirting. Whilst out two of her friends told me I need to just ask her out. I did it today, she mumbled about her life being too complicated and ran. What do I do now??? Link to comment
Jibralta Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Can you go on being her friend? Link to comment
SweetGirl28 Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Move on. She's not interested in you. Link to comment
Pleasedonot5 Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 How did you ask her out? Link to comment
Talllad33 Posted October 23, 2017 Author Share Posted October 23, 2017 I can go on being her friend. Okay thanks I thought it might be the case just didn't get why her friends told me to ask? Link to comment
Talllad33 Posted October 23, 2017 Author Share Posted October 23, 2017 Whilst talking today, I had said I was going out at the weekend. She asked where I was going and who with. I said would you like to go out sometime. She went really red and said I don't know and then said it's complicated and just kind of ran Link to comment
Pleasedonot5 Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Hmm, what was your read of the situation -- do you think the question really surprised her, do you think she's not interested at all, etc.? Link to comment
Talllad33 Posted October 23, 2017 Author Share Posted October 23, 2017 I had thought she was interested, she didn't seem surprised. She often approaches me and initiates the flirting and talking Link to comment
Jillstrand23 Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Maybe she's so excited she can't contain herself. Best to move on and not keep giving her bait. Link to comment
Pleasedonot5 Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 I had -- one -- previous experience where someone told me it was complicated / maybe. And then later she said yes. So maybe just wait this out. Act normal and move on in the meantime. All hope with her isn't lost, but move forward as if it is! Link to comment
Jibralta Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 How old are you guys? When I was a teen, I was all sorts of awkward like that. I just freaked out at the pressure. Didn't mean I didn't like the guy as a person. Link to comment
Jibralta Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Or maybe she's had a trauma of some sort. Don't get hung up on it. Just be her friend if you can. Link to comment
shellyf62 Posted October 24, 2017 Share Posted October 24, 2017 Maybe she is in a relationship & you are the fun guy at work she flirts with to take her mind off her troubles? Link to comment
willdation Posted October 24, 2017 Share Posted October 24, 2017 Well if you told her you really really like her or gave off that impression without going on a date yet, I could see how a woman could say something like that automatically... The best would have been to just ask her when she is free this week to get together.... Link to comment
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