Drumzzz Posted October 17, 2017 Share Posted October 17, 2017 Here is from the previous post Hello first time posting here Me and my ex broke up about 2 weeks ago. Prior to this we had our ups and downs and our last fight led to our official break up. She broke up with me because I was needy, clingy, and no self confidence. We agreed to remain friends and we decided to take a break from each other. I been keeping my cool being busy and working on myself. The hard part is that I already bought airfare to see her in a few weeks for her birthday. I just don’t know what to do? She would let me know if she still wants to see me. But at the same time why bother going if I’m going to be let down? Since the break up she contacts me at least once a day and I keep the conversation short as possible. Any advice would help. Thanks! So we talked a few days ago and I asked her one more time if she still wanted to see me. Still unsure. I decided to do what’s best for me and told her to never contact me again, unless it’s something I want to hear (let’s work things out) She respected my decision and I been good keeping busy and working on myself. I will be cancelling my ticket and plan my own vacation. It’s tough but I know with time things will get better. Cheers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pippy longstocking Posted October 17, 2017 Share Posted October 17, 2017 Here is from the previous post So we talked a few days ago and I asked her one more time if she still wanted to see me. Still unsure. I decided to do what’s best for me and told her to never contact me again, unless it’s something I want to hear (let’s work things out) She respected my decision and I been good keeping busy and working on myself. I will be cancelling my ticket and plan my own vacation. It’s tough but I know with time things will get better. Cheers Good for you , this is a massive step forward . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatwasThen Posted October 18, 2017 Share Posted October 18, 2017 Wow it's awesome to hear from a guy with good personal boundaries in place and hasn't left his dangly bits in his ex's purse. You da prize now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thorough Posted October 18, 2017 Share Posted October 18, 2017 I'm glad you put yourself 1st. She was def playing w/you and that is not fair to do to anyone, she wanted an ego boost and the power to reject you again. Enjoy your vacation and in time you will find better then someone who is not committed and a person who screws w/your feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drumzzz Posted October 18, 2017 Author Share Posted October 18, 2017 I appreciate all the feed back. I felt like I got my confidence back and did what I needed to do. Don’t get me wrong this is thought. But I’m ready.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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