poole Posted October 11, 2017 Share Posted October 11, 2017 so ive posted a few times before.. its been almost a month since the break up...ive tryd the NC but failed to complete it... I called her on saturday and we had a awesome chat nothing about the broken relationship just casually talking... sunday I heared she had someone that visits her .dumb me contacted her and asked her about it she just laughed and sayed goodbye putting the phone down. yesterday when trying to call her she didnt pic up but I didnt care... after that I received a text from a mutual friend where she states there is no one els and that I should stop contacting her. thats when I decided im fully going to commit to th NC...all the hurt and emotions is taking me down... in the weeks that past after we broke up I got a clear picture of what my part was in the break up since then iv been seeing a phycologist...I was jealous and this is something I dont know where it came from...so thats a work in progress...the klingyness aswel... all I said to our mutual friend was...its okay I respect her decision and that I know what my part in the break up was...and I didnt go and sit on my back side I did something about it and I wil continue doing so...and that all of the changes and eveything im doing was to show her that im still the one but if its her choice that I leave her and dnt contact her again then I respect it.. and I concluded the message by saying if she doesnt want to enjoy the fruits of the tree she planted then somebody els wil... it wil be tough I know but in me I feel much better after saying that and meaning it... thers just one thing I would like to know... since the break up shes been cold and blocked me out of her life is this typical after everybreak up... and does that mean all hope is lost that she didnt care or love me? i wouldnt mind getting back together in the future will the NC help or wil she aleys be this cold and emotionless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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