aria87 Posted October 11, 2017 Share Posted October 11, 2017 Hello ENA, I'm posting in the hopes of getting some perspective on my situation. Without going into too much details, 4 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 years. We had discussed our future and taking the next step ---->marriage. He wasn't ready to get married so after a year of waiting around, I got tired of waiting and realized I was wasting my time and broke up with him. I was devastated but I was tired of the confusion and hesitation on his part. It recently came to my attention that in the last 6 months of our relationship (maybe even longer) he had been cheating on me with several women and to top it off, he jumped into a new relationship with someone else 2 weeks after our breakup. he is not aware that I know about his cheating. It was a big blow to my confidence and self esteem that the man I thought knew, turned out to be completely different. And while I'm grateful that I figured out who he really was now, it still hurts knowing that he was capable of doing this to me. And now he's in a serious relationship with someone else which hurts even more because he's told everyone how happy he Is with her and that he's serious about her. I know I shouldn't care about him anymore but it doesn't take the pain away right now. It seems like he got away with everything he did and on top of it he is happy. If anyone can please give me some advice or share how they're experience was in a similar situation and how it all turned out, that would be great. Link to comment
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