3 weeks NC after being dumped

[Astrogirllibra]

My ex bf broke up with me over the phone 3 weeks ago after 3 months of dating. He told me he "didn't have the time to give me the attention I deserve" and he felt it was bad timing for a relationship when he was the one who rushed me into things in the first place. I was very accepting of his decision and calm about it. We work together but haven't texted/spoken or acknowledged each other since the break up. Was disappearing the right choice? Will he be back? He mentioned to a mutual friend the day after the break up how hurt and confused he was. I'm still confused about what happened

[Astrogirllibra]

He's also been watching all of my updates via social media

[Astrogirllibra]

Would really appreciate any feedback

[shessofly]

I do think nc was the best choice given what he said to you. I think if he changes his mind you will hear about it one way or another, but I would not spend a lot of time thinking about it. Watching someone's social media is not an indication of wanting to get back together. It sounds like the breakup was amicable and he may just want to make sure you're doing okay, is curious, is bored, etc.