Sash4462 Posted October 6, 2017 Share Posted October 6, 2017 Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month,last year we started off as friends with benefits. We lost contact until just recently and he made it official. I always thought we had pretty good sex,im a very sexual person and he has almost too much stamina,the problem starts with the foreplay or lack therof. I give him BJs to get him ready for as long as he wants then it’s straight to intercourse,no oral for me or any other form of foreplay. I know im not the issue because this is something ive NEVER experienced with others. Ive given up on asking,i did once while we were FWB and he said i was a freak as if i asked him to do something taboo,i got what I wanted for about 50 seconds. Since we’ve been together ive gotten oral twice and for literally no more than a minute,it infuriates me because it makes me feel like he doesnt care and he is bigger than average and i get soo sore from no foreplay. He told me he would do anything to please me but the last time he went down on me,just as it was getting good (45 seconds in) he says “don’t want your legs shaking too much” and stops! As if thats a bad thing! Another thing is he watches porn DURING sex. When he is above me he doesnt look at me his head is looking up at the tv 90% of the time,and when he is behind me thats ideal for him to watch. It kind of offends me. What to do? I do not like selfish lovers and honestly dont see us lasting much longer. Opinions? I should also add that he’s never given me an orgasm since majority of women cant from intercourse alone. I fake it every single time Link to comment
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