EndlessNemesis Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 So I was recently dating this girl for about 5 weeks, we had 6 dates and spent a lot of time together on those dates. Conversation always flowed well and I tried my best to make her laugh and keep things light-hearted. We visited each others places a couple of times each and I took her out for dinner a few times as well. She spoke about cooking for me at her place as a thank you for always buying her dinner. She also told me that she had spoken to her friend about me and she wanted me to come to her birthday party in a few weeks. Then suddenly 2 weeks ago, after our last date (after which she invited me up to her house and I stayed over) - she stopped communicating with me. Over the following week I only received 2 texts from her and when I responded to them she didn't reply. Eventually last week I caved in and asked her if everything was okay and that I'd love to see her again and she responded saying her work was really busy and could we arrange something for next week. I didn't want her to feel pressured so I said "No problem, just get in touch when you're a little less busy"... I haven't heard from her at all since (1 week ago today). During the 5 or so weeks we were dating we would always text each other at least once every couple of days, sometimes I would initiate contact and sometimes she would. I was always careful to gauge her interest level and I would say that she initiated contact / meeting up at least 50% of the time. So I really can't figure out why she has gone silent on me? She seemed like such an intelligent and genuine person, I wouldn't expect her to be the type to 'ghost' someone. A simple call or text to say that she has changed her mind about me and didn't want to see me anymore would have sufficed. Now I just feel like I've been discarded and all that time we spent together meant nothing to her. Any insight into this situation would be much appreciated. Link to comment
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