Astrogirl Posted October 5, 2017 Share Posted October 5, 2017 I have met a wonderful man and we plan to be married very soon. I have always trusted him and our relationship has been built on strong trust. He has male and female friends who I feel there is no issue and whom I get along with very well. However, I have always sensed an odd feeling about one particular female friend. I hoped this was just a case of paranoia but the other day his phone bleeped a text message as I was walking past and I saw her name flash up. I then asked him who it was from and so he told me a different name. I asked him if it was really from this girl and then he admitted it was. I can't understand why he would have lied. I am not jealous or possessive and get along great with his friends, but while he tells me their names when they text, when this particular girl texts him he always says it is just a friend and never says her name. To be fair to prove to me there is nothing going he called the girl and she confirmed there is nothing going on. Even she did not understand why he lied about the text being from her. Does anyone have any advice on why he would have felt the need to lie? I am not possessive and know he speaks to a lot of females and I have absolutely no issue. His reason for lying was because he didn't want me to think something was going on. So why when his other female friends text does he say who it is but not this one? I am confused over this and don't want it to destroy what we have. Thanks in advance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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