heysam Posted October 4, 2017 Share Posted October 4, 2017 I need advice, I'm damaging my relationship with my boyfriend, with whom I have been for 7 years(we are both 21 years old). Its been maybe 2 months since we haven't figure out our problems. He has a female lesbian friend, me and my boyfriend know her since Junior High but he is the one that has kept a friendship with her. This year their friendship started to develop a lot more, they have the same classes and so my boyfriend gives her rides almost every day to her house and now even to work, even if its far away. He also helps her in whatever she needs, he has been to her house to fix her computer, and whatever she needs I know my boyfriend would do it for her. Lately my boyfriend, her and another guy friend go out at night to eat or to the movies. He almost never goes out just the two of them because he knows I wouldn't like it, but he wishes he could do it without me getting mad about it. I can't stop feeling this way, I'm afraid that if he gets too involved with her, he would eventually develop feelings for her, or at least reach an emotional conection with her that I only want him to have with me. I dont want him being best friends with any other girl but me. I wouln't like it if her friend got to know about what is going on on my boyfriends life before me. It makes me angry to think about him doing all the things that he does for me but also for another girl. I don't want them to stop being friends, but I just don't want them to become best friends He says to me that he doesn't want to have boundaries with her because she is a lesbian and so he is not worry about anything happening. He says he is not the same way with other girls but that she is different since again, she is a lesbian and she has known her for quite a while. What do you guys think about your partner having a female best friend? I think even if she is lesbian, my boyfriend still likes girls and he could eventually be atracted to her, because it is just nature. Link to comment
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