mia500 Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 My best friend and I have known each other for about 4 years now, but something's seriously bothering me. She's always lying and telling me about something that someone does that she doesn’t like, when in reality she's talking about me. She might say, "that girl is always complaining" and describe something I talked to her about. And then I won't realize she was sending me subliminal messages until later when it's too late to bring it up. I don’t understand why she isn’t direct. This time was the last straw. I had cold sores that I was really self conscious about a few months ago. Now they're gone, but she's talking about a guy she slept with with and how the condom broke.. She would not, for the life of her stop talking about how she might have herpes. She wouldn't let it go, she said it like 5 times and kept talking about it when I said I felt she'd be okay. It was obvious she wanted me to tell her about my condition because I feel like she'd be worried about all STDs if this really happened, not just herpes. I felt really made fun of and felt like she got a big sense of power over knowing something I didn't want to tell her. She just kept going at it and it made me really uncomfortable and at a loss of words. Do you think your friends would do this? I don’t know if I should stay close with her because she's always acting this way. Link to comment
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