FurryDaka Posted October 2, 2017 Share Posted October 2, 2017 I don't know if this is the right place to ask questions like this but I guess I'll try it. My boyfriend and I have been dating for well over a year now. We're freshly graduated from high school; me by a year him by a couple months. Here recently though I have become insecure. For some background information, for our anniversary we didn't do anything but I'd bought him a gift. He promised he'd get me one, too, but never did. I wouldn't want him to waste money on me anyway, it's just the effort that it shows that matters to me. On the Fourth of July, we were hanging out with friends. We'd decided that my boyfriend and I would go get some food and come back but one of his female friends were leaving so he said, "be right back" to me and caught up with her, leaving me to walk behind him for 15-20 minutes until he was almost too far ahead to see. When he finally came back, he said he didn't know I was behind him; which I don't know if I believe that or not. We had also gone swimming that day, and I needed to change my clothes. On the way to his house we ran into her again, which he made me wait so he could hang out with her again. Catching up to recently, I had planned to go on a date with him because we hadn't gone on a date in months (he usually insists I bring my sister when it could be considered a date, like going to restaurants for example). I had planned for us to go to a movie together. I was going to pick him up an hour or two early so we wouldn't be late, and so we could see each other beforehand. I tried to get hold of him for about 30 minutes, texting and calling to see if he was ready and I got absolutely no answers. I eventually gave up. Later when he called back finally, I figured out he wasn't answering because he was with the same girl from before and another friend, who has left a long while before he finally called back. He said he didn't know I was texting or calling and that they weren't going through and he had called me back on her phone. He also said he'd made plans with her the night before to talk and visit because he hadn't seen her in so long, and that he never expected our plans to collide; he lost track of time. He requested that I pick him up right before the movie, which I didn't have a choice as it was too late to do anything else. When I finally saw him in person, his airplane mode had been turned on, and we were late for our movie. I rarely get days off at work, so planning days is really difficult as it is. It meant a lot to me, just like our anniversary and Fourth of July, etc. especially since we rarely go on dates; it usually ends up about visiting friends if we're alone together. He's a really sweet guy other than this issue and he can be very supportive, but some questions I have are -it okay that I have a hard time forgiving him for this happening? -Am I in the wrong? - Is he a bad boyfriend? I mean, I'm not exactly afraid of him cheating, I just feel like I come second and friends are priority. Is that normal or am I just being dramatic? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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